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OLIVER DRAKEFORD THERAPY BLOG


adhd treatment for adults- West hollywood, CA
In my years of working with adults with ADHD, I've come to realize just how complex and misunderstood this condition really is. Between...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Feb 275 min read


Exploring the Benefits of EMDR Therapy for Anxiety: What You Need to Know
Anxiety disorders can be debilitating, affecting various aspects of daily life. For many, traditional therapies have not provided the...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Oct 8, 20244 min read


Parenting Styles: A Comprehensive Guide to Raising Healthy, Happy Kids
Parenting is a complex and multifaceted endeavor, with many approaches and philosophies to navigate. From the well-known "tiger parents"...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 30, 20245 min read


Understanding Psychological DefenseS & THE DEFENSE MechanisM WORKSHEET
A Deeper Dive into the Unconscious Mind When we think about defense mechanisms, we often imagine a psychological shield—a way to protect...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 15, 20247 min read


The Ultimate Non Monogamy Chart: Mapping Modern Love Beyond Monogamy
If you can’t tell your polycules from your primaries, or if you're wondering whether you're polycurious or just polysaturated, you're in...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Sep 4, 20247 min read


the dangers of social media: Teens Hooked on Short FoRm Videos?
Short-form video content like TikTok and YouTube Shorts are reported to be increasing sleep problems and social anxiety in teen consumers

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Sep 2, 20247 min read


Free Relationship Advice: Life Lessons for Couples
I've been a therapist for nearly a decade, helping countless couples, parents, and families navigate their most challenging relationship...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Aug 31, 202414 min read


What to Do When Your Teenager Won't Talk to You: 10 Expert Tips
If you're a parent to a teen or tween, it can be frustrating and worrying when your once-talkative child suddenly becomes a tight-lipped...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Aug 22, 20247 min read


The Summer 2024 LGBTQ Newsletter Update
As summer 2024 draws to a close, it's time to reflect on some of the most significant moments in our LGBTQ newsletter. From historic...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Aug 13, 20246 min read


Dating and dealing with emotionally immature people
If you're sick of dating emotionally immature people, or perhaps you're already in a relationship with someone you think is emotionally...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Aug 5, 20246 min read


Couples Therapy: How to Stop Arguments In Relationships
As a couples therapist, a lot of couples come to see me for marriage counseling, hoping to reduce conflict in their relationships and...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
Jul 20, 202410 min read


Helicopter Parenting Effects: KIDS and Young Adults.
These are 20 ways helicopter parenting affects children and young adults.

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Jun 10, 202413 min read


the FeelinGS Wheel PDF: Enhancing Emotional intelligence
The Feeling Wheel PDF is a breakthrough tool for gaining insight into your emotions. Get a free download in this post

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Jun 1, 20249 min read


Enmeshment in Marriage and Couples Therapy: Differentiation of Self:
In this blog post, we will explore the concepts of differentiation of self and enmeshment in marriage and rcouples therapy. I’m a...

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
May 31, 202412 min read


Gay Relationship Advice: Navigating Age-Gap Relationships
I’ve been an LGBTQ+ Affirmative Therapist for nearly ten years, and quite often, the topic of age differences comes up with my single queer-identified male clients and quite often is present in the same-sex couples or families I work with. Here are some of my thoughts and ideas in the form of some gay relationship advice. Age differences in gay men in a romantic relationship is a very common phenomenon but is still one that often raises questions or concerns in my clients as

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
May 29, 202410 min read


Top 5 Tools For Emotional Intelligence and Communication Skills
These are my Top 5 Tools For Emotional Intelligence and Communication Skills. We all kind of know what Emotional intelligence (EQ) is -...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
May 28, 202411 min read


Thoughts on Psychoanalytic Theory and Anxiety
Understanding Anxiety and How Psychodynamic Therapy Can Help Anxiety is a common mental health issue that affects millions of people...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
May 22, 20247 min read


The 5 Stages of a Relationship And What To Do About Them
Understanding the 5 Stages of a Relationship Have you ever wondered why the honeymoon phase in a relationship feels so magical but...

Oliver Drakeford LMFT, CGP
May 20, 20248 min read


Taking the Toxic Family Test: Understand Dysfunctional Family Dynamics
a 'toxic family environment is where the interactions and dynamics between members are harmful, negative and dysfunctional

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Apr 30, 20246 min read


The Importance Of Dealing with Resistance in Group Therapy
Our job as therapists or is not necessarily about managing resistance; our job is actually to help uncover and work through them

Oliver Drakeford, LMFT CGP
Apr 29, 20248 min read
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